{"id":26607,"date":"2024-04-16T18:00:36","date_gmt":"2024-04-16T15:00:36","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/migrant.uz\/?p=26607"},"modified":"2024-04-16T19:59:51","modified_gmt":"2024-04-16T16:59:51","slug":"er-yoki-kuchukcha-rus-qiz-nimani-istaydi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/migrant.uz\/uz\/er-yoki-kuchukcha-rus-qiz-nimani-istaydi\/","title":{"rendered":"Er yoki kuchukcha?! Rus qiz nimani istaydi?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>Bir yil avval Moskvada bo\u2018lgan voqeani o\u2018sha vaqt bilan aytib bermochiman.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>O\u2018sha kuni bir rus qiz bilan gaplashib qoldim. O\u2018zbekligimni aytganimda, &laquo;Men seni Kavkazlik deb o\u2018ylagan edim&raquo; deb aytdi. Keyin kayfiyati o\u2018zgardi. Buni sezib, &laquo;aziat&raquo;larni yomon ko\u2018rishini sababini so\u2018radim.<\/p>\n<p>Uning aytishicha, &laquo;aziat&raquo;larni yomon ko\u2018rmas ekan. Shunchaki qo\u2018rqar ekan, avvalroq oddiy ishchilar ko\u2018p bo\u2018lganini, hozir esa o\u2018z biznesiga ega kishilar, menejerlar ko\u2018payib borayotganidan qo\u2018rqar ekan. &laquo;Sizlar ko\u2018payib ketayapsizlar va tez o\u2018syapsizlar&raquo;, dedi<\/p>\n<p>Keyin oila mavzusiga o\u2018tdik. Unga koreys key pop yulduzlariga o\u2018xshash, nozik, yuzi silliq yigitlar yoqar ekan. Ular baqirmas ekan, urushmas, nimanidir ta\u2019qiqlamas ekan. Ular ancha yoqimtoy ekan, xuddi kuchukchadek.<\/p>\n<p>&laquo;Ammo oila qurishga kelganda meni moliyaviy ta\u2019minlay oladigan va ko\u2018rinishidan xaqiqiy erkakka o\u2018xshagan yigitga tegishni xohlayman&raquo; deydi. &laquo;U seni boqadi, ximoya qiladi, asraydi.<\/p>\n<p>Kuchukcha esa faqat ko\u2018ngilxushlik va vaqtni qiziqroq o\u2018tkazish uchun&raquo; deydi<\/p>\n<p>Bolalar haqida so\u2018raganimda &laquo;Men bolalarni xushlamayman, chunki ularga e\u2019tibor kerak. Keyin er faqat menga emas, bolalarga mehr beradi. Shohona hayoting tugaydi&raquo;, dedi. Men hazil aralash &laquo;Sizlar tug\u2018ib ko\u2018paymaganingizdan keyin biz ko\u2018payamiz-da&raquo; dedim)<\/p>\n<p>&laquo;Buni tushunaman, millatimiz inqirozga qarab ketyapti. Yaqin orada yo\u2018q bo\u2018lib ketsak kerak. Lekin men millatni o\u2018ylasam, o\u2018zim maza qilmay yashasam, hamma shunday qiladimi? Yaxshisi, o\u2018zim xohlagandek yashay, qolganini vaqt ko\u2018rsatadi&raquo; deb kulib qo\u2018ydi.<\/p>\n<p>Bu rus qizni fikri hamma ruslarning fikrini ifodalamaydi albatta. Ammo ko\u2018p jihatdan to\u2018g\u2018ri. Bu yerda ayollar kar\u2019yera deb farzanddan voz kechishyapti. Erkaklarga teng bo\u2018laman deb, inqirozga qarab ketyapti.<\/p>\n<p>Uning fikricha ayol avval o\u2018qishi, keyin uyda bolalarga tarbiya berishi, xohlagan narsasini o\u2018rganishi kerak ekan. &laquo;Ammo men uyda o\u2018tirgim kelmaydi. Erkaklarga ayollar nimalarga qodirligini ko\u2018rsatib qo\u2018ygim keladi&raquo; deydi. Oxirida &laquo;Normaln\u044by mujik bo\u2018lsa-da, hamma taraflama ta\u2019minlab qo\u2018ysa, aytganini qilsam, qo\u2018rqsam ozroq, lekin yaxshi ko\u2018rsam&raquo; deb gapni tugatdi. Bir-birimizga qarab kulib yubordik&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Men shuni bildimki, bu ayollar o\u2018zi nima xohlashini hech qachon bilmaydi. Oqibatini o\u2018ylamasdan ish qiladi va o\u2018zi shunaqaligini tan olmaydi. Bu qiz ham qilayotgan ishlari noto\u2018g\u2018ri ekanini biladi, lekin shunaqa qilgisi keladi.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><strong>\ud83d\udc64 Nurbek Yo\u2018ldoshev<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Bir yil avval Moskvada bo\u2018lgan voqeani o\u2018sha vaqt bilan aytib bermochiman. O\u2018sha kuni bir rus qiz bilan gaplashib qoldim. O\u2018zbekligimni aytganimda, &laquo;Men seni Kavkazlik deb o\u2018ylagan edim&raquo; deb aytdi. Keyin kayfiyati o\u2018zgardi. Buni sezib, &laquo;aziat&raquo;larni yomon ko\u2018rishini sababini so\u2018radim. Uning aytishicha, &laquo;aziat&raquo;larni yomon ko\u2018rmas ekan. Shunchaki qo\u2018rqar ekan, avvalroq oddiy ishchilar ko\u2018p bo\u2018lganini, hozir esa o\u2018z biznesiga ega kishilar, menejerlar ko\u2018payib borayotganidan qo\u2018rqar ekan. &laquo;Sizlar ko\u2018payib ketayapsizlar va tez o\u2018syapsizlar&raquo;, dedi Keyin oila mavzusiga o\u2018tdik. Unga koreys key pop yulduzlariga o\u2018xshash, nozik, yuzi silliq yigitlar yoqar ekan. Ular baqirmas ekan, urushmas, nimanidir ta\u2019qiqlamas ekan. Ular ancha yoqimtoy ekan, xuddi kuchukchadek. &laquo;Ammo oila qurishga kelganda meni moliyaviy ta\u2019minlay oladigan va ko\u2018rinishidan xaqiqiy erkakka o\u2018xshagan yigitga tegishni xohlayman&raquo; deydi. &laquo;U seni boqadi, ximoya qiladi, asraydi. Kuchukcha esa faqat ko\u2018ngilxushlik va vaqtni qiziqroq o\u2018tkazish uchun&raquo; deydi Bolalar haqida so\u2018raganimda &laquo;Men bolalarni xushlamayman, chunki ularga e\u2019tibor kerak. Keyin er faqat menga emas, bolalarga mehr beradi. Shohona hayoting tugaydi&raquo;, dedi. Men hazil aralash &laquo;Sizlar tug\u2018ib ko\u2018paymaganingizdan keyin biz ko\u2018payamiz-da&raquo; dedim) &laquo;Buni tushunaman, millatimiz inqirozga qarab ketyapti. Yaqin orada yo\u2018q bo\u2018lib ketsak kerak. Lekin men millatni o\u2018ylasam, o\u2018zim maza qilmay yashasam, hamma shunday qiladimi? Yaxshisi, o\u2018zim xohlagandek yashay, qolganini vaqt ko\u2018rsatadi&raquo; deb kulib qo\u2018ydi. Bu rus qizni fikri hamma ruslarning fikrini ifodalamaydi albatta. Ammo ko\u2018p jihatdan to\u2018g\u2018ri. Bu yerda ayollar kar\u2019yera deb farzanddan voz kechishyapti. Erkaklarga teng bo\u2018laman deb, inqirozga qarab ketyapti. Uning fikricha ayol avval o\u2018qishi, keyin uyda bolalarga tarbiya berishi, xohlagan narsasini o\u2018rganishi kerak ekan. &laquo;Ammo men uyda o\u2018tirgim kelmaydi. Erkaklarga ayollar nimalarga qodirligini ko\u2018rsatib qo\u2018ygim keladi&raquo; deydi. Oxirida &laquo;Normaln\u044by mujik bo\u2018lsa-da, hamma taraflama ta\u2019minlab qo\u2018ysa, aytganini qilsam, qo\u2018rqsam ozroq, lekin yaxshi ko\u2018rsam&raquo; deb gapni tugatdi. Bir-birimizga qarab kulib yubordik&#8230; Men shuni bildimki, bu ayollar o\u2018zi nima xohlashini hech qachon bilmaydi. Oqibatini o\u2018ylamasdan ish qiladi va o\u2018zi shunaqaligini tan olmaydi. Bu qiz ham qilayotgan ishlari noto\u2018g\u2018ri ekanini biladi, lekin shunaqa qilgisi keladi. \ud83d\udc64 Nurbek Yo\u2018ldoshev<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":26608,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[67],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-26607","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-category-newsrus"],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v23.7 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>Er yoki kuchukcha?! Rus qiz nimani istaydi? - Migrantlar uchun axborot-xizmat portali - MIGRANT.UZ<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/migrant.uz\/er-yoki-kuchukcha-rus-qiz-nimani-istaydi\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"uz_UZ\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Er yoki kuchukcha?! Rus qiz nimani istaydi? - Migrantlar uchun axborot-xizmat portali - MIGRANT.UZ\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"Bir yil avval Moskvada bo\u2018lgan voqeani o\u2018sha vaqt bilan aytib bermochiman. O\u2018sha kuni bir rus qiz bilan gaplashib qoldim. O\u2018zbekligimni aytganimda, &laquo;Men seni Kavkazlik deb o\u2018ylagan edim&raquo; deb aytdi. Keyin kayfiyati o\u2018zgardi. Buni sezib, &laquo;aziat&raquo;larni yomon ko\u2018rishini sababini so\u2018radim. 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Shunchaki qo\u2018rqar ekan, avvalroq oddiy ishchilar ko\u2018p bo\u2018lganini, hozir esa o\u2018z biznesiga ega kishilar, menejerlar ko\u2018payib borayotganidan qo\u2018rqar ekan. &laquo;Sizlar ko\u2018payib ketayapsizlar va tez o\u2018syapsizlar&raquo;, dedi Keyin oila mavzusiga o\u2018tdik. Unga koreys key pop yulduzlariga o\u2018xshash, nozik, yuzi silliq yigitlar yoqar ekan. Ular baqirmas ekan, urushmas, nimanidir ta\u2019qiqlamas ekan. Ular ancha yoqimtoy ekan, xuddi kuchukchadek. &laquo;Ammo oila qurishga kelganda meni moliyaviy ta\u2019minlay oladigan va ko\u2018rinishidan xaqiqiy erkakka o\u2018xshagan yigitga tegishni xohlayman&raquo; deydi. &laquo;U seni boqadi, ximoya qiladi, asraydi. Kuchukcha esa faqat ko\u2018ngilxushlik va vaqtni qiziqroq o\u2018tkazish uchun&raquo; deydi Bolalar haqida so\u2018raganimda &laquo;Men bolalarni xushlamayman, chunki ularga e\u2019tibor kerak. Keyin er faqat menga emas, bolalarga mehr beradi. Shohona hayoting tugaydi&raquo;, dedi. Men hazil aralash &laquo;Sizlar tug\u2018ib ko\u2018paymaganingizdan keyin biz ko\u2018payamiz-da&raquo; dedim) &laquo;Buni tushunaman, millatimiz inqirozga qarab ketyapti. Yaqin orada yo\u2018q bo\u2018lib ketsak kerak. Lekin men millatni o\u2018ylasam, o\u2018zim maza qilmay yashasam, hamma shunday qiladimi? Yaxshisi, o\u2018zim xohlagandek yashay, qolganini vaqt ko\u2018rsatadi&raquo; deb kulib qo\u2018ydi. Bu rus qizni fikri hamma ruslarning fikrini ifodalamaydi albatta. Ammo ko\u2018p jihatdan to\u2018g\u2018ri. Bu yerda ayollar kar\u2019yera deb farzanddan voz kechishyapti. Erkaklarga teng bo\u2018laman deb, inqirozga qarab ketyapti. Uning fikricha ayol avval o\u2018qishi, keyin uyda bolalarga tarbiya berishi, xohlagan narsasini o\u2018rganishi kerak ekan. &laquo;Ammo men uyda o\u2018tirgim kelmaydi. Erkaklarga ayollar nimalarga qodirligini ko\u2018rsatib qo\u2018ygim keladi&raquo; deydi. 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